Self-regulation won’t help you bypass tough feelings – here’s why you should do it anyway

Self-regulation – the latest buzz word…

There’s no doubt about it, self-regulation is a big thing in the therapy and self-development industries at the moment.  Everywhere you turn someone is suggesting you somatic this or breathe that.

I love it! There are so many fabulous free resources out there to support people to change their experience, and so many little positive tweaks that people can make to their daily lives, by just adding in some short practices scattered here and there throughout the day.

I love how accessible a lot of these things are, no need to commit to overly lengthy and time consuming self-care practices in order to start seeing some small improvements. Read more

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If family time is tricky, then self-care is essential…

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Easter – it’s another one of those times where we are expected to play happy families, oh and if yours isn’t, don’t make other people feel uncomfortable about the fact that this is not consensus reality.

So, what do you do if the reality for you is that being around family is tricky, or you have chosen to put some distance between you, or for any other reason whatsoever you do not have family to be with at this time.

Here’s a few tips to help you look after yourself at a time which can be quite triggering:

    • First tip – don’t buy into the stories that suggest if you don’t have a happy family, there is something wrong with you. Your reality is different and for some people they cannot imagine what that might be like – that’s a them problem, not a you problem. These are probably not the best people to be seeking support from on this matter.

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